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The Sun Rose For Yaakov...It Will Rise For Us

12/04/2020 11:00:51 AM

Dec4

Rabbi Barry Gelman

 

Rabbi Samson Raphels Hirsh has a problem with the prohibition against eating the Gid Hanashe, It is not a culinary objection, Rav Hirsh does not feel that the absence of the Gid Hanshe will have an adverse effect on his menu. His concern is far more fundamental than that.   

The Torah uses grand language when declaring the prohibition of eating the Gid Hanashe. (Gen. 33:32)

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Getting To Gratitude

11/25/2020 11:31:36 AM

Nov25

Rabbi Barry Gelman

For some this may be a challenging Thanksgiving. Without the large family gatherings and with an altered national  mood due to the pandemic, it may be hard for some people to get to a state of gratitude.  

I would like to repackage a wonderful spiritual practice regarding prayer to help in this area.

The Talmud (Berachot 32a) states: Rabbi Simlai taught: One should always set forth...Read more...

Life: It's A Thorny Issue

11/20/2020 08:26:30 AM

Nov20

Rabbi Barry Gelman

Syreeta Scott, owner of the salon Duafe, still wants to be at the top of the natural hair-care game. But now her post-COVID-19 dream includes investing and developing real estate. She bought the North Philly building where her salon is housed and is committed to providing fair housing for her tenants. “My dreams for myself now include activism,” said the 45-year-old entrepreneur.

I was really moved by this account. The...Read more...

Living In Three Time Zones

11/13/2020 09:58:27 AM

Nov13

Rabbi Barry Gelman

In memory of Rabbi Lord Jonathan Sacks.

Have you ever asked yourself what it means to live an outstanding or uncommon life?

Many of us have role models who we look to for inspiration. We read biographies of great people that provide insights into their life and motivate us to emulate them as best we can.

While not a full biography, this week’s parsha offers  us insight into Sarah’s life and...Read more...

Don't Get Stuck!

11/06/2020 11:45:40 AM

Nov6

Rabbi Barry Gelman

This week’s sermon is sponsored by Naomi and Mike Levy and Family In memory of Larry Jaeger, Naomi Father,whose yahrzeit is this weekend.

We are in the midst of a trying time in this country. The election has shown that we are a divided country. The election has indicated that it is hard to change people’s minds. 

All this talk of change on a national level has has brought me to think about...Read more...

Persistence and Avraham's Hotel Loyalty Program

10/30/2020 10:27:34 AM

Oct30

Rabbi Barry Gelman

Did Avraham invent the idea of the hotel loyalty rewards program?

Strangely, it sounds like he did.  After the episode in Egypt when he almost lost Sara his wife, we are told:

וַיֵּ֙לֶךְ֙ לְמַסָּעָ֔יו... 

And he went on his journey 

Rashi teaches that 

כְּשֶׁחָזַר מִמִּצְרַיִם לְאֶרֶץ כְּנַעַן הָיָה הוֹלֵךְ וְלָן בָּאַכְסַנְיוֹת שֶׁלָּן בָּהֶם בַּהֲלִיכָתוֹ לְמִצְרַיִם, לִמֶּדְךָ דֶּרֶך אֶרֶץ, שֶׁלֹּא יְשַׁנֶּה אָדָם מֵאַכְסַנְיָא שֶׁלּוֹ.Read more...

...you’re being a bigger blessing than you realize

10/23/2020 11:09:16 AM

Oct23

Rabbi Barry Gelman


I dedicate this Dvar Torah in the merit of a Refuah Shleimah for Rabbi Jonathan Sacks.

I got the most amazing email a few weeks ago from a president of a Congregation in a different city.

Hello Rabbi,

XXXXXXX is kind enough to forward your mailings to me.  You were so kind to give me permission to quote you…

I want you to know the mitzvahs you’re building up because of this.  We’re a very...Read more...

Leave An Impression

10/16/2020 09:59:49 AM

Oct16

Rabbi Barry Gelman

Are you dreaming differently these days. Recently there have been some articles reporting that the CORONAVIRUS pandemic is altering sleep patterns and  the way we dream.

Rabbi Moshe of Coucy (1200-1260) was not living through a pandemic, but he did have a very strange dream. It happened when he was writing his now famous Sefer MItzvot Gadol (SeMaG) an early example of a Halachik code that discusses each of the...Read more...

The Potter's Sukkah

10/02/2020 10:56:02 AM

Oct2

Rabbi Barry Gelman

In the days of the Talmud, potters and perhaps other shop keepers would live in a Sukkah, within a sukkah. They would live , eat their meals and conduct their personal life in the smaller sukkah, while the outer, larger sukkah was reserved for business  - selling their wares, etc.

This interesting setup caught the attention of the Rabbis of the Talmud and they wondered if these various sukkot could be used to...Read more...

Happy Yom Kippur? A Kol Nidrei Drasha

09/27/2020 11:48:39 AM

Sep27

Rabbi Barry Gelman

 

I came across these instructions given to non jews in terms of how to extend Yom Kippur greetings to Jewish friends.  “Your first inclination might be to wish your Jewish friends “Happy Yom Kippur!” because, after all, “Happy Hanukkah!” works. But heaven forbid, do not do this. Yom Kippur is a solemn day. Much better you say, “Have an easy fast” or “Good yontif,” or “Good holiday”...Read more...

Isolated But Never Alone

09/27/2020 11:04:46 AM

Sep27

Rabbi Barry Gelman

Back in April, when families who lost loved fighting in the DIF, families expressed how hard it was to not be able to go to the  military cemetery. 

Sivan Rahav-Meir noted that these families lamented not being able to invite friends and relatives over.  

This is not the only example of folks feeling alone and isolated in the recent months, but it is surely one of the most...Read more...

Let’s Talk About Dancing

09/24/2020 10:04:33 AM

Sep24

Rabbi Barry Gelman

Let’s talk about dancing. I am sure that dancing is not the first thing that comes to your mind when you think about this time of year and  Yom Kippur…Maybe we can change that.

Presumably we have all been engaged in Teshuvah  -  repentance for the last month. We have prayed, we have recited selichot, we have asked for forgiveness and we have engaged in introspection.  

An article I recently read...Read more...

Regaining What Was Lost - A Rosh Hashanah Sermon - 5781

09/15/2020 12:13:41 PM

Sep15

Rabbi Barry Gelman

I want to let you in on a personal struggle of mine. Sometimes I feel that I do not know where to turn. COVID-19 has created a new paradigm for our and every other community with so many new needs, concerns and objectives, that sometimes I feel that it is too much. 

I wonder if any of you are feeling this way or have felt this way over the course of the last six months.

What are we supposed to do about...Read more...

God Desires Our Heart. A Rosh Hashanah Sermon - 5781

09/15/2020 12:09:29 PM

Sep15

Rabbi Barry Gelman

On Rosh Hashanah we celebrate the creation of the world. We declare it in the Rosh Hashana davening - Hayom Harat Olam - today the world was created. This year, this phrase takes on new meaning.  Looking around, it certainly feels like a new world. There is so much that is unrecognizable.

 

So much of what we experienced is not what we expected or what we had been prepared for...certainly not what...Read more...

Gathering In Spirit When We Can't Gather In Person

09/11/2020 12:02:49 PM

Sep11

Rabbi Barry Gelman

It is more than a bit strange that while we are all experiencing various levels of isolation that  one of the two Mitzvot found in the second of this week’s Parshiyot, Parshat Vayeilech, is the Mitzvah of Hakel - the obligation of all of Bnei Yisrael to gather in Jerusalem once every seven years. 

Here is how the Sefer Hachinuch describe the Mitzvah:

להקהיל כל ישראל בחג...Read more...

Cultivating Joy In The Service of God

09/04/2020 01:04:28 PM

Sep4

Rabbi Barry Gelman

How would you characterize the Jewish people? 


Rabbi Yechiel Yaakov Weinberg notes that the Jewish people have lots of labels - we are called “The People of the Book” - for example. But he proposes that the most authentic and descriptive title for us should be אומה עליזה - the joyful nation or the  happy nation. 
Whether we are a happy nation, or are supposed to be a happy nation, Rabbi...Read more...

Look Out Your Window And Be Thankful For Your Spork

08/27/2020 09:59:23 PM

Aug27

Rabbi Barry Gelman

I have been thinking about gratitude lately. Mostly because our family is celebrating a simcha this weekend - Ami’s Bar Mitzvah -  and I am incredibly grateful for the many many blessings in my life.  But, I have also been thinking about gratitude because I do not think there is enough of it. 

This is why I have recently added a Hakarat HaTov - Gratitude -  section to my weekly erev Shabbat...Read more...

A Pinch of This and a Dash of That...Ingredients For The Perfect Community.

08/21/2020 09:38:43 AM

Aug21

Rabbi Barry Gelman

 וְלֹֽא־תָקִ֥ים לְךָ֖ מַצֵּבָ֑ה אֲשֶׁ֥ר שָׂנֵ֖א יְהוָ֥ה אֱלֹהֶֽיךָ׃

Do not erect a stone pillar; for such the LORD your God detests.

Why does God hate a מַצֵּבָה - a stone pillar?

A number of commentators on the Torah explain this by comparing the usage and physical structure of a...Read more...

Pete and Repeat Were On A Boat

08/14/2020 11:34:38 AM

Aug14

Rabbi Barry Gelman

I read a heartbreaking story about the the increased number of orphans left behind due to parents dying from Coronavirus. It is not an angle that I had considered.  It reminded me, yet again, about the ongoing cost of the pandemic and how new areas of concern and responsibility present themselves. 

This week’s parsha presents is with an approach the ever present needs that we encounter.

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Inherit and Create

08/07/2020 10:00:37 AM

Aug7

Rabbi Barry Gelman

As Bnei Yisrael are about to enter the Land of Israel, Moshe presents a biting critique of their spiritual state. 

שְׁמַ֣ע יִשְׂרָאֵ֗ל אַתָּ֨ה עֹבֵ֤ר הַיּוֹם֙ אֶת־הַיַּרְדֵּ֔ן לָבֹא֙ לָרֶ֣שֶׁת גּוֹיִ֔ם גְּדֹלִ֥ים וַעֲצֻמִ֖ים מִמֶּ֑ךָּ עָרִ֛ים גְּדֹלֹ֥ת...Read more...

Does God Have A Love Language?

07/31/2020 09:23:44 AM

Jul31

Rabbi Barry Gelman

Does the Torah have a Love Language?


וְאָ֣הַבְתָּ֔ אֵ֖ת יְהוָ֣ה אֱלֹהֶ֑יךָ בְּכָל־לְבָבְךָ֥ וּבְכָל־נַפְשְׁךָ֖ וּבְכָל־מְאֹדֶֽךָ׃


You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might.


Of course, loving God sounds great. The problem is that it is...Read more...

What's Next

07/24/2020 11:14:41 AM

Jul24

Rabbi Barry Gelman

What’s Next?  

Made famous by President Jedd Bartlet, the fictional President of the West Wing, this quip is a good measure of how to view this period of time; the nine day and Tisha B’Av.

What does it mean to mourn? 

Let’s answer this question by comparing two different aspects of the Halacht of Mourning.

In general, when it comes to Halacha (Jewish Law) we teach our children how to observe...Read more...

Moving Into A New Home During The Three Weeks

07/19/2020 02:32:38 PM

Jul19

Rabbi Barry Gelman

One of the questions he addresses regarding the Three Weeks is whether or not it is permitted to move into a new home during that period of time. This is the season when many people move, trying to get their family settled in time for the new school year. 

This question is addressed by many poskim. This post will focus mostly on the analysis on the Ya’alat Chen. 

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Our Dual Burden

07/17/2020 10:02:53 AM

Jul17

Rabbi Barry Gelman

This week, I had an interesting conversation with some colleagues on a question that seems to be on the minds of many people. I have been asked the same question by congregants. 

Basically, the question goes like this. How can Jews support efforts to bring justice to communities of color even as some members of that community have expressed anti-semetic and anti-Israel views? This question took on greater...Read more...

You can't have your cake and eat it too.

07/10/2020 11:01:48 AM

Jul10

Rabbi Barry Gelman

This week’s Dvar Torah is dedicated by Sheila and Louis Train in memory of Sheila’s sister Ruth Kelman  z’l and her brother-in-law Rabbi Joseph Kelman z’l. 

You can't have your cake and eat it too...The popular phrase, traced back to 1538,  says Rabbi Francis Nataf, is an apt idiom to understand the events surrounding Mahlah, Noa, Hoglah, Milcah, and Tirzah the daughters of...Read more...

Skip A Little - Serve God With Joy

07/03/2020 10:34:59 AM

Jul3

This week’s Dvar Torah is sponsored by Sheila and Louis Train in memory of their daughter,  Carolynne Joy Guttman z ‘l.

 

As Bilam was on his way to attempt to curse the Jewish people, an angel God appeares and impedes the path of the donkey Bilam was riding on. On three different occasions Bilam strikes the donkey. Finally, a miracle occurs and the donkey speaks to Bilam, saying:

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Divne Friendship

06/26/2020 09:38:55 AM

Jun26

Rabbi Barry Gelman

The weekly Dvar Torah is sponsored by Sheila and Louis Train in memory of Sheila’s mother Yetta Friedman z’l

Moshe can’t catch a break. There is one rebellion after the other and Moshe seems overwhelmed.

וַיִּשְׁמַ֣ע מֹשֶׁ֔ה וַיִּפֹּ֖ל עַל־פָּנָֽיו׃

When Moses heard this, he fell on his face.

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Prove The Angels Wrong!

06/19/2020 11:47:20 AM

Jun19

Rabbi Barry Gelman

I write these remarks today on  Juneteenth - an important and historic day in Texas and in the shadow of the tragic events that have occurred recently in the United States. 

We are at a critical moment here in the United States. Many people are hoping that terribly tragic events in the last few weeks will lead to a more equitable and safe society for all. I pray that that is true. 

At moments...Read more...

What Have You Done For Me Lately

06/12/2020 11:03:02 AM

Jun12

Rabbi Barry Gelman

Moshe is in for a surprise. As Bnei Yisrael journeys from Sinai towards the promised land, Moshe nervously anticipates the war that awaits them. We can feel his angst as he prays:  קוּמָ֣ה ׀ יְהוָ֗ה וְיָפֻ֙צוּ֙ אֹֽיְבֶ֔יךָ וְיָנֻ֥סוּ מְשַׂנְאֶ֖יךָ מִפָּנֶֽיךָ׃ - Rise up, O LORD!  And let your enemies be scattered, And may Your foes flee before You!.

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Kindness Is Never Ending

05/28/2020 10:00:17 AM

May28

Rabbi Barry Gelman

This Yizkor, the second Yizkor that we find ourselves not able to be in shul, may be 

particularly difficult for people. 

Yizkor is made more meaningful by sharing it with community members. We are comforted by the presence and embrace of our friends and neighbors.

Without the emotional setting of the shul, the chanting of the Chazan and the faint sounds of sobbing, the power of...Read more...

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